The love of my life broke up with me three years ago. He gave me one of those "it's not you, it's me" speeches and I was heartbroken, but a couple months later, I find a handsom, adoring, and devoted New Boyfriend. Next thing i know (after posting pictures of my new happy with my new boo) Old Boyfriend flips out, apologizes, and proposes marriage. (something I wanted from him when we were together)...But, I decided to stay with New Boyfriend.
Read MoreHey ladies, so...I need my ass whooped for how long it has taken me to launch "Ask Nailah" and I've had several messages that I had sitting on standby until I could find balance and get myself together. Well, now that I have my shop up and running (check out my author apparel if you're a writer!) ya girl is ready to get the ball rolling! First things first, I do not proclaim to know everything, so if there's someone out there within my readership who could help another sister out, please feel free. This is a learning environment for all!
Read MoreTo put it plainly, because this blog article is going to be quite candid, people are having a lot of sex. And if they're not having sex, you bet they're thinking about fucking. The thing about this is, we women sometimes get too emotionally attached after we receive good dick, and sometimes don't know how to act afterward.
NOTE: THIS WILL BE A LONG READ BECAUSE I'LL BE INCLUDING AN EXCERPT FROM MY BOOK: GIRL, I TRIED TO TELL YOU.
Hello readers! For the past month and some change, my book club members and I had the delicious chance to indulge in reading Taraji P. Henson's memoir Around the Way Girl and if I wasn't a fan before...I damn sure am now! By the way, I'm naturally long-winded when telling a story...so this blog may be a long one..or not. But I promise, the sparkling keys I'm about to hand over to you, will be worth the read!
Read MoreI have a confession. I just recently crossed something off of my Black Girl Bucket List. Yasss gurl....
Read MoreHey ladies. If you’re reading this blog, more than likely you’ve seen me post a semi-large pink egg on my FB page and you got curious about what it is.
In a nutshell, a yoni egg is a semi-precious stone that has been carved into the shape of a small egg that is inserted inside the yoni and used for vaginal wall tightening and energetic cleansing.
“WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT…HOLD UP NAILAH. ONE SEC…HUH? IT’S A WHAT THAT’S SHAPED LIKE WHAHHHH… THAT YOU PUT WHERE AND DO WHAT WITH?!”
Read MoreGirl, have you ever felt insecure in bed?
It’s an often occurrence for women to feel insecure in bed and beat themselves up for things they definitely shouldn’t. Like I mentioned in my previous article, women shouldn’t have to feel “some sort of way” about their sexuality, but to instead embrace it…
So, your man has requested for you to ride him and take charge and for a moment, you question if you’re able to—skillfully—succumb to his demand to please him? Maybe you don’t know how to ride? Or you are afraid it won’t feel good for him? Are you uncomfortable because of your weight?
Read MoreYUP, I said it. FUCK your comfort zone. Girl, it does not deserve to exist. Obliterate that motherfucker. Like, right this moment! WHY?
All throughout your life, it’s always been that one thing that stands between who you are and who you yearn to become. Who you’re destined to be. Every time an opportunity makes itself known and dares you to step out into unfamiliar territory, to do something that would fulfill your mind, body, and soul, it’s been the invisible hand that squeezes the back of your neck like an abusive boyfriend and pulls you back at the very last moment.
Read MoreI have a confession. I just recently crossed something off of my Black Girl Bucket List. Yasss gurl....
Read MoreThroughout my misadventures as a serial dater and love seeker, totally living my best pro-hoe life, I’ve developed a taste for a certain type. And while it might not have been intentional, if I were to put my last four lovers in a police lineup, it’d be hard for strangers to tell them apart...
Read MoreNot everyone is born with motivation. There is a severe lack in some who believe ‘I’ll get to that one day’ or ‘the timing isn’t right’ or a classic case of ‘I can’t do that’. Motivation is the defining factor that turns a good thought into immediate action. It turns a good idea into a business and can positively impact the world around you.Without motivation, you can’t achieve anything. There are no goal posts to aim for and no purpose to strive towards.
Read MoreToday’s topic highlights the elusive G spot, which is and should be every guy’s holy grail. I’m telling you. Some men will search and search, and dick you down (or sometimes finger ya down) deeper and harder because they want to be the guy who gave you the most AH-mazing orgasm of your life. The only problem with this is, they don’t do their research, so they have no friggin’ idea what they’re prodding when they have their fingers stretching you open like you’re the rear end of a raw chicken primed for roasting!
Read MoreLike most others, I’m hard on myself. All my life I wanted to be perfect, or something close to it. And if I wasn’t, I was quick to give myself a harsh mental lashing full of self-perpetuating feelings of disappointment, dissatisfaction, and how much I “hated” the way my life was. The problem with that mentality was that I was never satisfied...
Read MoreSwoon for all things passionate, playful, and totally at peace with yourself. However, never forget to connect with your fine self before the day ends. Read all about why I believe masturbation self-pleasure plays a significant role in a woman's life and why it's so important to show your clitoris some TLC.
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